I hate that whenever my mom is upset at me she compares me to someone else. My “perfect” friend, my ” perfect” enemy, her “perfect” younger self. It’s not even that I do anything wrong or mess up, it’s whenever I don’t fit into her game plan for me. I just want to do what I want and be who want. I’m an adult and should be able to. It’s just that after you’ve been told so and so would have never done that for most of your life, it makes you feel like you’re below them when you’re really not.